I want a man who is. . .

a lot of things.. but most importantly. . is FUN!

You can have fun doing ANYTHING and YOU SHOULD!

I was just on live a second ago and I was talking about how one of the important things I look for in a man is someone I can have fun with when I’m just going about the day. . that’s because I am always having fun and I love life so that is a characteristic trait of myself and not one that everyone has or understands.

Why?

Some people hold their life stories as reasons to be unhappy when they wake up.

Some people hold their todo list as a reason not to smile.

Some people hold their stress, worries, anxieties, and/or memories as a reason to not live in the present moment.

The present moment isn’t serious, right now im in my pjs writing on my pretty laptop. (I just got a new case and I am so in love with it!)

And right now here you are, reading this extension of my thoughts.

I said that I want someone to have fun with when I go to target and a man asked how I could have fun in Target.

Well, I love Target, so it’s easy to have fun browsing and looking around to see if there is anything for my place. . . but with a man? Can I have fun with a man in my day to day life? I think so, because there are people who are easy to be with and around. People who help life flow! . . Maybe they are other people who live in the moment or love life. . but either way they are people who are willing to have fun!

Not everyone is WILLING to have fun! To play, be silly, and be in the moment.

A lot of people are taught out of playing, conditioned to thinking life is nonstop serious, and those who do that are robbed of what makes life so wonderful. .

Spontaneous joy, serendipity, and our inability to predict the beautiful adventures that are yet to come.

I couldn’t sit still in those classes and I can’t sit still today. So, I am looking for someone who loves to live and can be in the present moment. . and I strongly encourage you tryin it for yourself.

Mindfulness heals. Xoxo